Whenever i say "3 little words" first impression the people will tthink o come out from my mouth will be "i love you".how come 3 little words now means i love you?it can be i hate you or maybe i am hungry?or i am late.
"i love you" one popular line that will be used as to express one special feelings that is buried down in your heart.But sometimes the line is used as a routine,as a cover up when you made a mistake for example "how could you do dis to me?" and you can reply "im sorry but I LOVE YOU" sometimes it can be a replacement for the word "thank you" like when a boyfriend bought you something that you always screaming for,sheepishly you will smile and say"i love you"with a hug.The motive of the word i love you is already been misused and over used.When you are on the phone with someone you love and there is a long pause,to break the silent suddenly you just say "i love you" to make him or her feel secured but actually the love is fading and that is way there is a long pause dude.
Some people believe i love you is a one powerful word that cant be simply said.Some can just say it like it means nothing.Well,it is good better to make love than war.3 Little words means a lot from my point of view.The moment you said i love you to someone a line of commitment and expectation starting to appear.Such as: better say it everyday (and with a smile),cnt forget to say it (merajuk nanti),jealousy (u love me dont love anyone else) Got to show what you've said (expectation) Got to make sacrifices (you love me what) So for me,it is a powerful word.Have to be ready to say it coz once you've said it unconsiously you are silently owned.
So these 3 little words usually will be said when there is a feeling of love inside existed. But how can you compare or differentiate love and care?i mean is normal to say rite before you hang up the phone "i care for you"?is love and care are the same and falls under the same category?So for me ,when people say i love you, for me i love you is just a word while CARE can only be express tru action and gesture.Caring gesture and feeling shows sincerity but i love you still can create doubts and uncertainty.
By showing you care and without mentioning it to the other person whatever you do will be highly appreciated and will be considered sweet.But the moment you said i love,you will be judged and no matter what you do will never be enough.that is why people created this: meredah lautan dan belantara untuk membuktikan cinta.Melalui jalan berapi and yada yada...but if for the CARING category.."are you sick,here let me get water for you" (awwww sweet....)easy dont you think?but for LOVE category: "are you sick?let me get water for you" (water only?!go buy food and get me medicine la woi,stupid...say dis love cheh) so it is better to care about others rather than loving them...
So better be careful to used the word i love you because this sweet LITTLE 3 words are not so little to me. When the feeling of love grow make him or her say it first so that you are standing on a safer ground.anythin hapen you can counter back "hallo you say first what,i said it because you said so"my idea here to make you have less responsibility over what you have said meanwhile he or she who said it first got to prove more.while you play it cool dude....hehe
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